I'd like to see the following made into a youtube video
with sound and fury !!
- Put opponent on defensive
- Change the focus
- Distract from original disruptive conduct
- Discredit those who attempt to enforce order
- Describe someone else's conduct using aggressive, negative language:
The goal is to make the attempt to do the right thing, the wrong thing
- Make someone else the issue
- Change the focus from the misconduct to whether the (unreasonable) demands are
or are not met
- Make an unreasonable leap or conclusion from a faulty premise,
- Distract attention from the failure to meet the standards;
- Change the subject from the rules which were violated to whether or not someone else has "correctly" enforced or not enforced a rule
- Make accusations
- Assert someone else, in enforcing the rules, has violated the rules
- Raise doubts about their competence
- Change who should or should not make amends
- Blame others for inappropriate conduct
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